In Matthew 21, Jesus gives the parable of the two sons. One has a rebellious attitude refusing his father’s command. This son repented and was redeemed. The other makes an outward show of himself, but through his laziness, his promise is worthless. Sadly, the latter seems to fit this society today.
We make an outward show to get something we want, promising to uphold our end of the bargain no matter what comes along. “Until death do we part” is a vow taken and entirely meant during the romance of a newly joined couple. We share in this Godly institution before friends and family creating in us a deep commitment. At this moment, we know this is forever. We are ecstatic to receive a loan to bail us out of a pinch. Payment plans are drawn up, giving complete focus to honoring our debt. At this point, nothing else matters beyond convincing the lender they will not be disappointed. The depth of our conviction determines our character.
Time passes, and the fire of the vow dwindles. Emotions are less involved, and most of what is left is the burden of our agreement, possibly leaving us in doubt of our own binding words. “My word is my bond” until unforeseen circumstances make it difficult or until something better comes along. There is no shortage of excuses to get out of a promise when we no longer want to uphold it. We would be better off never vowing.
Complications will arise and what we do next matters most. There will always be some excuse for us not to do what we say we are going to do. A new emotion of honor and duty is in reach helping us to be victorious as we persevere through the challenges. Circumstances should not dictate our response; instead, we should reflect on our original words upholding what matters-our end of the deal.